The Freaky Friday Omelet

Ingredients: Handsome, Smart, Dr. Jeckel And Mr Hide

The worst part about dating is finding out about the bad parts of a person that you know if you got into a serious relationship with them you would not be able to deal with those parts..

When I met this Omelet we had quite a lot in common he loved reading books, coffee, intellectual conversations, he wanted to also do a podcasts about relationships (that clearly he has no knowledge of) but then after several months he went into this dark space because he was in between jobs and he shut himself off completely and didn’t talk to me for days and then days turned into weeks..He would only text (I hate that)

I swear it was like he was on his period I never seen shit like that before..But for damn near a month tho..I’m in my prime so I remember going to his house randomly to do a mental health check and the whole time he just stared at the TV like i wasn’t even there and after leaving his house that night…I remember thinking as I was driving home this must be what it feels like when a guy wants sex with his girl and she giving him the cold shoulder and he can’t get none or like after pregnancy that six week wait..lol

I think the problem I had most is he was sulking and looking for sympathy because he was broke but he was perfectly capable of resolving it before the new job started but he chose not to..He could have got something temporary in between time..

I don’t feel sorry for people who are perfectly healthy and can figure out how to make money and I felt like the sulking was bullshit Nigga you are an Omelet not a Bear!!

It even made me wonder if he just couldn’t be in my presence because I’m a hell of a go getter and he felt emasculated by my Ambition in some way..

I was explaining to him that as a woman I have some really basic needs like Sausage, Time and Attention and he was acting like a Bitch like it was impossible to give any of that to me in his state of mind

Every time I had this discussion he would say you’re just like all the other women I know and I clearly let him know that if I’m like every other woman he knows he should do a self assessment because he was clearly the problem

I am not going to keep pouring into someone who can’t give simple things of a friendship back..

One Friday after having a heated discussion about this I realized that if this is his personality when shit gets hard then he wouldn’t be a strong enough partner for me in the future so you know what I said right? Omelethimgo!!

Y.O.L.K.

You Only Live Knowingly

Author: Omelethimgo

Just an imperfect girl that blogs about dating experiences. I created this blog to make light of my terrible dating experiences and decisions I have made while dating. I am not a dating expert but I know there are people out there that have been through some of the same things so my hope is to let them know they are not alone. View all posts by Omelethimgo