myself.
Detachment does not mean you don’t care, it simply means that you value yourself enough to take care of yourself first and let others take responsibility for their actions without saving or punishing them.
Far too long I was a healer for others. I was nurturing relationships and I did not realize I was making up for what they did not receive from their mother.
Far too many men in this world are subconsciously expecting women to mother them.
The little boy in them who did not receive warm nurturing from their mother have deeply unmet needs and anger issues and is looking for that to be given by his woman.
That’s why they want things their way and cannot understand your point of view.
Now that I’m older and wiser…Mmm mmm get somebody else to do it!
If your tone is not right, you’re coming at me sideways or you’re demanding, I’m gonna detach because I have done my work to heal from my personal trauma and you should do the same.
Like I always say
Y.O.L.K.
You only live knowingly
Omelethimgo 