I have not put anything on Lay-A-Way in almost thirty years..Why is it when dating someone they want to put you on Lay-A-Way?
In case you don’t know what Lay-A- Way is, it is when you make a small deposit on an item or items that you want and then pay it off until it’s yours.
Now let me break it down in dating terms..This person will have someone that they like but they don’t want to give what it takes to make that person permanently theirs by committing to them so you make small deposits ie via phone calls, texts, quick visits, a lay here and there without solidifying their intent that they will make this person permanently theirs until they realize that this person really doesn’t belong to them.
So then they send subliminal messages like I don’t like sharing or are you entertaining anyone else?
People who make excuses about why they can’t commit to you at the moment but also express they don’t like to share is someone who has you on Lay-A-Way. You’re placed in a shelf until they “possibly” become ready to commit to you while their away.
This has happened to me and my answer to that is “I’m single right?” which the answer is always Yes. So next I say well you can’t share something that doesn’t belong to you.
I am not that person, you cannot put me on Lay-A-Way and expect to just come and pay off the Lay-A-way (well that depends on how much money 💰 you talking jk) lol and allow me to be yours on your time, it doesn’t work like that for me
Be very cautious of people like this because these people are selfish individuals and if they really wanted you they would do whatever to make time for you.
Don’t be a Lay A Way Ho!
Y.O.L.K.
You Only Live Knowingly
Omelethimgo 