I know I said the last blog that I was done for good with this Troubled Omelet.
I really thought I was because of how it ended but I really should have known I would hear from him again.
This is a pattern..When I think it’s over he literally never goes more than a few days without reaching back out to me as you can see from my previous blogs.
I hope this is the last time I have to make an entry about us cracking apart again in this way.
To start “NO” he did not go back to his wife.
The night that he was texting me while I was at the movies when I finally came out I will admit I was a smart ass and I said “I did say I was going to the movies right?” In a tone like why the hell did you keep texting me knowing I was in the movies? And if you know me you know I’m a fucking smart ass bitch sometimes 🤷🏽♀️
So he took that as him bothering me and got in his feelings. Now I don’t always have time to explain the whole history and background on things but to put it in short terms his wife treated him like shit throughout their marriage, cheating, talking down to him etc. so when I responded that way it made him feel some type of way.
So he started reevaluating our relationship and he just felt that he should focus on wrapping up his divorce and work on himself rather than continue to be in a relationship.
So when I asked him why he couldn’t just pick up the phone and talk to me he apologized over and over that he fucked up by not doing that. And that when I asked him if “this was our talk?” When he text me and if he was going to give me an explanation his “Naw” was saying this wasn’t our talk and that he intended on calling me.
Well I explained I was already pissed at that point because he shouldn’t have ever text me in the first place.
So the past few days we did a lot of talking and he shared with me that there were times when he would compare things I said to his wife when he knows I’m nothing like her.
He also said that and he has said this many times “He is so used to dealing with young spring chickens and that he has actually never dealt with a real woman like me before that he is trying to adjust to learn how to communicate because he is so used to shutting down or having a yelling match with his Ex.
He expressed that he really loves me and that he can’t risk losing me to someone else because I am his future.
We have agreed to work on us, our communication and just being happy together.
In just 5 months we will have been together 1 year and we are trying to make it there and beyond.
So for now “Omelet Him Back In.”
The lesson I took away from this is that communication by text about serious matters are a No No.
When you have something serious that needs to be addressed, Pick up the damn phone and talk about it!
Y.O.L.K.
You Only Live Knowingly
Omelethimgo 