Back in January I wrote about the Troubled Omelet and I absolutely thought that was the end of my relationship with him and then a few things transpired. He actually came clean and told me everything and he didn’t paint a perfect picture of himself he let me know that through his marriage he wasn’t always perfect and neither was his wife. They lived in a very dysfunctional situation for Many years and it was time that they separated yolks from whites and parted their ways.
So with proof of course it was confirmed they separated and she was in her own place and he was in his own place. During this time things were still not perfect between us because every time she called crying she was scared or said the kids needed him he would run over there. There were times he would text instead of call me and I would know he was there and I would try and end it and he wouldn’t let me go. He insisted nothing was going on between them and in his words “He was merely observing her actions and the way she cared for their children”
I know reading this you’re thinking “Has she cracked her shell?” No I actually haven’t done that I see a man that has a heart so pure that even though his wife knows it’s over he doesn’t like seeing her hurt or his children hurt.
To explain how I’m dealing with this is truly nothing that anyone could understand unless they went through something like this. I’m dealing with a broken man. I can’t fix him I’m aware but he definitely makes it clear to me that he wants to be with me and me only and he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me but right now he’s fragile on the inside just like his shell on the outside. So I’m here to support him through it. I believe him when he tells me there is absolutely no scrambling in the bed going on between the two of them.
Most women would say let him go but we have tried to move on without each other but have never made it 1 whole day without him calling me to tell me he doesn’t want to lose me. We really got too far in to turn back now and we are just here going day to day spending more time together and learning about each other and sharing and being open with each other in all ways.
I have never had an Omelet let me in on everything and be so open with me, I mean he lets me see his phone messages and Facebook messages to reassure me I am who he wants to be with.
Do I advise someone to do this? Hell No Never! I would advise you to wait and give it time in between the separation to allow healing because this is not a roll in the nest. This is the most difficult thing to go through and that I have ever been through in my life but I promise you of all the Omelets I have met I have never met someone more caring, patient, attentive and HONEST in my life
Still deciding if Omelethimgo
Y. O. L. K.
You only live knowingly
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