Ingredients: Charming, Attentive, Persistent, Insecure with a Big side of Hidden Secrets
So when I engaged in my first conversation with this Omelet I thought he is too damn handsome to be single and I actually gave him the code name Trouble. That’s how me and my best friend would discuss him. I never used his name.
After a few days of chatting I found out that he had recently separated with his kids mom and I didn’t want to really deal with drama so I kept saying I’m not interested and pushed him away for a good week but he was persistent he wouldn’t let me just walk away.
I figured if someone is trying this hard to get a date why not? So since it was a week before the Thanksgiving Holiday we planned our first date upon my return.
Our first date was dinner and a movie and we continued to go on dates every week after that and the last time I saw him was New Years Day.
Each of our dates he seemed like he had somewhere to be like he was in a hurry meaning he wouldn’t ever stay a full night.
We planned a date the following week but he had to change the time because his “Baby Mama” didn’t have a car and to help her out he was allowing her to use his car.
This happened on several occasions previously where he would be late or just change our original date time.
This was strange to me because why did he feel obligated besides his children to help her so much when they were separated? Things weren’t adding up but yet he kept being persistent with his calls, texts, gifts etc but I still felt irritated about him starting to change his consistency in timeliness.
The last time we had a date planned he said he was gonna be late he mentioned to me he was only helping his “Baby Mamma” until Feb 1 so I said ok well I will resolve this. I told him that I didn’t want to see him until Feb 1st then that way I don’t feel like my relationship is restricted and the time we spend together is free to spend without interruptions.
He absolutely hated it and text me and called me daily to change my mind and I wouldn’t budge I was so proud of myself for the first time I stuck to my guns and I didn’t let a mans words and promises change my mind.
And then….suddenly I was introduced to a website that I won’t name because I will use it for future Omelets that would provide me with all his information previous, past, associates, family members and one of those associates was his “Baby Mama” that I found out was really his WIFE.
Yes this Omelet was Cooped up with papers!!!!
When I asked him, he rolled all the way around in a circle and avoided answering the question entirely when I asked him several times until he just splattered all over the phone.
You know what happened right?
I said Omelethimgo!
Here is what I have to say to you Omelets, if you have something to hide bring it to the surface immediately. Allow me to make the choice on if I want to continue scrambling around in the pan with you.
But DO NOT take my choice away from me. That is the worse thing you can do.
Ladies: Trust your gut and if things don’t add up it’s probably because there’s a few eggs missing from the carton.
Y.O.L.K.
You Only Live Knowingly
